Monday, 11 May 2020

How to get attention of others

According to the psychological experts, human creature needs attention the most. If you ask a man, 'you can get million dollars but you have to isolate yourself and live the remaining life without fame and attention'. What do you think he agrees or not? absolutely not! But if you offer him 'fame and tons of attention with low wages' what do you think now?  Majority might agree. This is because human beings are social butterflies and they can't live without another human being. In today's generation, people are too busy with their daily routine that they don't have enough time to give attention to others. This is the direct cause of depression. Below I am going to share the important tips, so that you don't have to face such situation ever. 

1) Be a good listener: As I told you earlier that, in today's busy life people are actually lacking attention than they deserve. So we should have to take benefit out of it. But how? 'by filling the gap'. It means to have to give that sufficient attention to that person who are lacking it. Another question is 'what is the exact quantity of sufficient attention'?. Well answer is quantity doesn't matter quality matters. Human beings have ability to identify between fake and good listener. So be a genuine listener, don't fake it. 

2) Use push pull method: Push pull method is actually the most powerful method to get attention of others and also to attract a girl 4x faster. The method is explained below:

A) Pull: Here pull stands for showing to much interest in someone . Let's understand it by an interesting story. One day I went to a house party in my friends house, there I saw a really cute girl. I approached her gently and gave a genuine complement about her dress. She became so much happy and with a smile said thank you to me. By this way I used 'pull' method, by showing much interest in her. 

B) Push: Now push stands for ignoring / disappearing from that person. Further in that story, after complementing that cute girl I suddenly disappeared from her sight. Because I made a positive impact on her mind, she was thinking about our 2 minutes conversation throughout the party and she started searching me but couldn't succeed. She tried her best but end up with nothing. Finally at last when the party was over, she suddenly spotted me going out of the house. She ran and came to me and asked me for my phone number. Man o man! From there I found my first girlfriend. By this way I used 'push' method by suddenly disappearing/ignoring her. 
This push pull method works always and this is the most powerful method to get attention of other. Just try it once and share the results in comment box. 

Finally I want to conclude that the above two points are the most effective way to get attention of other without telling them 'hey, stop ignoring and listen me carefully'. If you like this article please let me know in comment box, this encourage me to make more effort for you all. Try this steps from today and see the further result. 
Thank you, 
Wiz psychology team